User's Guide for Women

Some easy tips for men not to be such idiots.

1) Call or text daily.  It doesn't have to be a long, involved conversation.  Just contact.

2) Ask what SHE has been doing.

3) Mention the following on a regular basis or insert into silences
         A.  I missed you
         B.  I have been thinking about you/ You have been on my mind
         C. You are beautiful/pretty/cute/funny/wonderful

4) Bring up how you thought about something discussed previously or that something reminded you of her

5) Make eye contact

6) Touch her arm/neck/back/knee (keep it PG, perverts)

7) Kiss her or hug her just for the hell of it

8) Make plans a couple days or a week out to show a future. It says "See!  I will still want to be with you in a week!"  The plans could be simple, like coffee or watching a movie together.  It is the time that matters.

9) Go out of your way every once and a while and you will be rewarded ten fold.  Example:  If she has had a really tough time at work offer to pick her up for lunch to get her mind off it or send flowers or a thoughtful card/email.

10) Just be present.  When talking or in silence just be aware of her.  No one wants to be an accessory.

If men did half of this a woman would never doubt his interest.